CBSE results out: 5 things parents must know (but no one would tell you this)

With CBSE results now out, it is a pivotal moment for both parents and children. While most of the focus is on the academic aspect of the examination, it is imperative that you acknowledge that your child will need your support.

even if the result is not great, your support as parents would mean the world to them. Here are five things you must do and should know as parents.

The way you react matters more than marks

The way you react if and when the results are out—that bit can significantly affect your child’s mental and emotional well-being. It is important to remember that the results are just a snippet of one moment in time and they do not define who and what your child can do; they surely do not define his or her potential.

Avoid expressing anger, disappointment, and frustration; encourage your child to do better if he or she lacks in their performance this one time.

Do not disgrace them by comparing them to others

Every child is different. They are born and brought up differently; similarly, their mental competencies are different. It is not possible for everyone to know everything. Remember your child is unique, and a mere result cannot define what he can and cannot do in life. Focus on your child’s individual journey, and celebrate their uniqueness and strength.

This will help your children feel more optimistic the next time they sit for an exam.

Avoid defining their worth by marks

It is crucial that you yourself convey to your child that academic grades do not define their value. They are capable of more than this in life. Emphasize that intelligence and success come in various forms and setbacks are a major part of learning. If you do not fail today, you will not win tomorrow. Support your child; tell them to pick themselves up and give their best next time.

Be mindful of your expectations

It is important to set realistic and achievable goals, even though it is natural to wish the best for your child. Unrealistic expectations can lead to unnecessary stress and anxiety. Support your child in pursuing their interests and strengths by having open discussions with them regarding their goals and aspirations.

Seek professional support if needed

Talk to a counselor or mental health practitioner if your child exhibits symptoms of chronic distress, including withdrawal, persistent sadness,or anxiety.

Expert help will assist in building resiliency for future challenges and provide ways to cope with disappointment. Remember that seeking help is an active step towards well-being and a demonstration of strength.You are your children’s biggest cheerleader; do not let them down. Be confident in what they can achieve; your kind words are like swords they carry around with themselves, the biggest weapon against any disappointment. Remember to support and love your children in times when they need it the most.