Ranveer Allahbadia urges fans to focus on self-control

YouTuber

Ranveer Allahbadia

has revealed his new guiding principle: focus on managing your own actions rather than trying to change others. The actor emphasises that getting upset or attempting to fix someone who doesn’t meet your expectations is futile.In his recent Instagram post, he addressed the common frustration of dealing with difficult people. The picture captures Allahbadia resting calmly on a large rock, eyes shut, as a river quietly runs alongside him. He wrote, “Ever Felt Frustrated Because People Don’t Act the Way They Should? Maybe they’re rude, unreliable, or just straight-up annoying. You try to fix them, correct them, or get angry at them-but what happens? Nothing."

Emphasising the Importance of Self-Control

He further added, "It’s human tendency that we want things to go our way. We want people to act the way we think is right. When they don’t, we get frustrated. They will be who they are. They will make mistakes. They will disappoint. That’s their business. But what about you? How do you respond? That’s what really matters. If someone is being difficult, let them. If someone is being unfair, let them. You hold yourself to a higher standard. You control your emotions, your reactions, and your energy. Weakness is letting others decide how you feel. Strength is choosing for yourself. At the end of the day, you don’t have time to fix others. You have enough work to do on yourself. Keep that focus, and life gets lighter. Control Yourself, Not Others."

Comeback After ControversyBack in March 2025, Ranveer made a comeback to his podcast channel,

The Ranveer Show

, over a month after facing backlash due to the controversy surrounding his remarks on the YouTube show India’s Got Latent. He returned with an episode featuring Buddhist monk

Palga Rinpoche

, sharing his experiences and the lessons he learned during the challenging period.